Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Irónico / Ironic

Quiero compartir con ustedes algo irónico. Sí ustedes llevan tiempo visitando mi blog saben que prácticamente a diario reciben un comentario mío en sus blogs. Pero, que ocurre es muy fácil decir me gusta que me dejen comentarios pero, no contestar los mismos. Pues bien, llega un momento en que uno se cansa de dejar comentarios y que ni siquiera te digan gracias pues lo normal es dejar de visitar ese blog o visitarlo y no comentar, en otras palabras ser un fantasma. Pero, peor es cuando te dicen mil y una excusas de por que no dejan comentarios en tu blog y sin embargo, coincides con esas personas en otros blogs. Recién me ocurrió que alguien me solicitó que visitara su blog entonces mi pregunta es por que el descaro de pedir algo así sí nunca han sido quién de decir presente en mi blog. A dónde vamos a llegar?

Otra cosa es que a pesar de las distancias tu aprendes a conocer a las personas y sabes cuando una persona se molesta cuando le pides una sugerencia para algo y sencillamente esquivan tu pregunta y dan respuestas que nadie preguntó por ellas.

Listo, me siento más liviana ahora, me quite un gran peso y lo lamento pero es mi sentir. Ah, y por si acaso yo también soy madre, trabajo con mis bordados, atiendo mis hijas y a mi esposo y saco tiempo para organizarme.

Annie

I want to share with you something a bit ironic. If you have been visiting my blog you should know that practically every day I write a comment on your blogs. But, what happens is that it is very easy to say that we all like to have comments but not everyone likes to write them. Therefore the moment arrives in which some get tired of leaving comments and not receiving at least a thanks note, therefore the normal thing to do is to stop visiting that blog or visit it and not leaving any comments, in other words to be a ghost. But, the worse is when they give you a thousand excuses of why they neglected to leave comments in your blog but you find them writing in other people's blogs. Recently it happened to me, someone requested me to visit her blog. And I ask myself, the audacity to request me this if this person has never before left me any messages before.

Other thing is that in spite of the distances you learn to know people and know when a person is bothered when asked for a suggestion for something and simply avoid your question and give answers that nobody asked for them.

Ok, I feel better now, a great weight has been removed from me and I am sorry but this is how I feel. Oh, and just in case I am also a mother, work with my embroideries, I attend my daughters and my husband and make time to be organized.

Annie

14 comments:

Jeremi said...

oh, that doesn't sound good Annie -- I can see where that's irritating. I like how you put it out there! Life is full of ironies.

I hope you have a super Tuesday : )

Jayme said...

You ALWAYS leave great comments :)

Sarah said...

I'm glad you feel better getting that off your chest. I admire the way you always post on my blog, even though I do not always return the favor.

On a side note, I didn't realize you had an etsy shop. Very cute stuff on there! I wish I could be creative like that!

Mighty M said...

I totally get this and am so glad you feel better having said it "out loud"!! Have a wonderful day!

Christina said...

Sorry that happened to you! Frustrating situation. Hope you feel better after getting it out...
xoxo

*LLUVIA* said...

I totally agree! Some people (the big bloggers) only care that you click over to their blog. they make money depending on the visits they get per day!

Either way, i've gotten to the point where i just visit the blogs of those who comment and my favorites. if i have time i do the rest. I enjoy blogging and never want it to turn into unpaid work.

Steph said...

I really admire that you are able to comment on everyone's blogs even though you are so busy. I see your comments everywhere and it's because you are such a giving as well as organized person. I agree it is disappointing when you comment on someone's blog (more than once) but you don't get one comment or email back. I usually stop visiting them after a while. It may not be the right thing to do, but I just move on. For me, it feels like when you would like to be friends with someone and you try, but they don't want to be friends. Even if it's nothing personal, it can still suck. At the same time, I know I'm guilty of forgetting to visit and comment on others' blogs too. Thanks for being my friend...I'm lucky to have you. ((hugs))

Malena said...

Blogging is not that easy to do. It's hard to give give give - it's mostly a one-way communication when you think about it. Which is good. And bad.
You know all about my blogging "hang ups". Do I share? Why do I do it?

Venting is good though.

I don't have access to my hansentriplet email here at the cottage, but I checked in on you guys yesterday. Hope you guys get to have some vacation too soon. It is so so so good for the body and soul. xo

Caro said...

You are a strong and positive person, do not let little things like comments bring you down.
Personally I know I don't comment much, but I can tell you that you are pure sunshine to me :)

Jenna said...

Awww I'm sorry! I hope you don't feel that way about me!!! I know I don't always comment as I should :( and there is no good excuse! I love getting comments from you!!!

Noelle said...

La verdad...casi no tengo tiempo para solo leer...y casi nunca dejo comments...tal vez por no tener algo importante que decir, y por leer mis blogs en un reader...

A mi no me importa si no me dejan comments...me da gusto saber que hay personas que gustan lo que escribo, y no tienen que decirmelo.

Pero espero que hoy puedas sentir mejor!!!

Missy (Two Little Monkeys) said...

Good job, Annie! I feel the same way sometimes. You really should get an award for the best commenter! You always leave the sweetest comments.

gianna said...

I kind of find it ironic that I haven't visited your blog in forever and one of the first posts I read is about commenting. I'm sorry if I was one of the offending! But you do have a great blog. Maybe I could freshen up my Spanish a bit!

Christa said...

I've been MIA from the blogging world in general only posting once a week if that! I'm sorry if I'm one of the people that offended you! I wish I could be as organized as you and be a super commenter but it's hard. I catch up when I can and I comment when I feel I have something valuable or relevant to say. Blogs I leave comments on now are normally from those that I've seen tweeted and click through too.

I love getting your comments and have missed you. Maybe you can explain to us how you find the time :)